I suppose it would be difficult to balance the two.
I am curious how do you reconcile this:
1 Timothy 3:2 “Now a bishop[a] must be above reproach, married only once,[b] temperate, sensible, respectable, hospitable, an apt teacher,”
Footnotes:
a. 1 Timothy 3:2 Or an overseer
b. 1 Timothy 3:2 Gk the husband of one wife
(NRSV Catholic Edition)
https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=1+timothy+3%3A2&version=NRSVCE