Not to mention, not all marriages that end in divorce are failures

What?

People get divorce after being together for decades. It’s possible to have a happy marriage and then years down the line change and decide to move on. It’s not “giving up.”

But it is a failure. Why would you get a divorce if it’s a happy marriage? Clearly something changed down the line where the marriage no longer works. People don’t just say, “Hey, I know we’ve been together for years, but I want a divorce” for no reason.