The whole Youngling angle is never really delved into. The Jedi takes kids off to train them, (I presume willingly) and they apparently never see their families again? Or have any contact? Ten years is a long time for Anakin not to have even communicated with his Mother. Oh yeah, they let her remain in slavery! Qui-Gon at least tried to free Shmi.
No wonder Ani was pissed off at the Jedi.
Clone Wars touches on this (and that is considered Canon by TPTB, including Lucas). They find young kids and yes, they take them and they never have ties to their family again. The Jedi are their family. But with Anakin we see that he is not a good fit for this family and he is closer to Palpatine. He argued with Obi-wan, Mace, chafes against the teachings of Yoda, complains about the Jedi accepting his appointment to the council but not making him a master. The only time we see him in any conflict with Palpatine is when Palpatine admits he knows the dark side of the force. And even then he quickly calms down and comes to Palpatine’s defense. Palpatine’s years of mentoring did their work. And if you include Clone Wars in the story, it provides even more fodder for Anakin to turn against the Jedi. First they force a padawan on him and then they kick her out of the order.