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Maybe she thinks you’re angling for romance and she isn’t interested so doesn’t know what to say?

That was my first guess before you even said she’s female.

Handman said:

Well, it’s a woman, and I think that would come off weird.

Well, hate to say it, but your text probably came off weird anyway. That’s the kind of thing someone does after a date. Buddies usually don’t do that (ideally you would’ve just said nothing and texted her some other time to hang out).

I know this sounds pretty dumb, but it’s probably true and I can’t blame her. I probably would’ve thought and done the same thing in her position. This is her way of subtlety telling you she’s not interested.

JEDIT: dammit Frink, yeah I had the same thought after the first post, the fact that she’s a woman only solifies the probability.

I’ve been wondering why you never text me back.

Blegh. Fuck panic attacks. I had to quit my job after only two days because they were just getting worse before they were getting better. Like, nearly losing my sense of balance bad.

I know people are saying it’ll get better, but I don’t want to risk injury for that chance.

moviefreakedmind said:

That’s very relatable to me. I’m lucky to make it more than a week at a job these days.

Yeah. I’m definitely going to have to get in touch with my Psychiatrist again, at any rate. Maybe finally cave and get on Disability.

DominicCobb said:

Handman said:

Well, it’s a woman, and I think that would come off weird.

Well, hate to say it, but your text probably came off weird anyway. That’s the kind of thing someone does after a date. Buddies usually don’t do that (ideally you would’ve just said nothing and texted her some other time to hang out).

I know this sounds pretty dumb, but it’s probably true and I can’t blame her. I probably would’ve thought and done the same thing in her position. This is her way of subtlety telling you she’s not interested.

JEDIT: dammit Frink, yeah I had the same thought after the first post, the fact that she’s a woman only solifies the probability.

That sucks.

flametitan said:

Blegh. Fuck panic attacks. I had to quit my job after only two days because they were just getting worse before they were getting better. Like, nearly losing my sense of balance bad.

I know people are saying it’ll get better, but I don’t want to risk injury for that chance.

That really sucks…

To be honest, I had no idea what to make of the invitation. It kind of felt like a date but it also didn’t. I didn’t have the opportunity to thank her for the invite, so I sent that text while also making it known I would like to do something again, seeing as we don’t see eachother often. She’s nice, but I couldn’t tell if SHE was interested or not either. So it kind of sucks that after that spontaneous fun time, I’m stuck right back where I was.

Yep sure sounds like she thinks you want a date and she doesn’t.

Also what invitation? I thought you said she needed a ride.

I was compensated with free dinner and axe throwing. So, I was invited to that I suppose.

moviefreakedmind said:

If you’re not romantically interested in her then you can make that clear too. If she doesn’t believe you then just tell her you’re gay.

In case it needs to be said, this is bad advice.

Handman said:

I was compensated with free dinner and axe throwing. So, I was invited to that I suppose.

What the f is axe throwing? Also that doesn’t sound like an invite, more like she’s repaying a favor (so weird thing to thank for).

I wouldn’t worry too much about it though honestly, that’d only make things worse. You probably still have the chance to hang out with her again sometime.

Define “worked.”

DominicCobb said:

Handman said:

I was compensated with free dinner and axe throwing. So, I was invited to that I suppose.

What the f is ace throwing?

Axe throwing. You throw axes. And it was a lot of fun, so I felt like it would be wrong not to at least say that considering I didn’t need to go. That would kind of be a bit rude. I know whenever I invite someone somewhere, I’m always worried they’re bored as hell.

moviefreakedmind said:

People that thought I was romantically interested in them no longer thought so.

That’s not really the problem.

I’ve had quite a lot of allegations about my orientation asked. Only issue, if I told one person I was gay, is that everyone I know knows everyone I know.