I actually do have a friend right now, so you’re wrong there. I said your advice to him is bullshit because, more than likely, if he didn’t try so hard to reach out to these people then they probably wouldn’t interact with him at all.
Well I’m glad you have a friend, but you’ve previously indicated you didn’t want any.
And if he’s continually having to do all the work with these people then, as you said in the other thread, he needs different friends. If you have to chase your friends down they aren’t your friends. But there are people out there you won’t have to do that with