Fair enough. So you don’t want to have friends, it’s not worthwhile to you. That’s fine if that’s what you want. But clearly that isn’t what Handman wants. Yes my romantic relationships with women have left me with alot of heartache, but that isn’t what Handman is asking advice on is it. I have a successful social life, romantic aside. So maybe my advice isn’t such a “bullshit idea” to handman, especially coming from someone who doesn’t even want friends. (And that’s not a potshot you’ve said as much many times) so I am sorry for getting personal. I agree with the advice you gave in the emotional support thread however, he might just be investing his energy in the wrong people.