i personally don’t think that being a jedi means being good at using the force and that alone. but it is true that the way it’s presented in the original 6 movies, one has to be really in line with the jedi ways if one wants to have good control over the force. or, of course, the quick and easy and seductive dark side path. rey’s skills didn’t progress like that. in fact they progressed without her making any sort of effort or sacrifice or such which feels reeeeally weird to me and to some, and to us that’s the problem here (i think).