Calm down. Seriously.
Ok you never said you were afraid of gay people. Obvious hyperbole. But yes I’m judging you for being uncomfortable around “overly-effeminate” men. It’s a complete overreaction to something that doesn’t affect you at all.
I have emotions and they are mine. I am allowed to have them. Whether it’s an overreaction is none of your concern. I am who I am. I do not fear gay men. I do not hate them. I do not mock them. I do not belittle them. I am merely uncomfortable with certain behaviors certain people display.
Damn it. I’m allowed to have feelings and I don’t need to justify myself to you. Stop flamebaiting me.