Frink, if men who are hetero feel fooled or “trapped” by being attracted to biological men who dress like women, then that’s their prerogative. You can’t tell them to not feel that way or not be appalled when they encounter it.
They ought not to be mean, certainly, but they shouldn’t be chastised for feeling disgusted in such an obviously socking circumstance.
Uhhhhhhh… wow
What?? We’re human. If people feel uncomfortable about whatever it is, they should be allowed to be uncomfortable. If you’re going to be inclusive, you shouldn’t get to cherry-pick who you include or tell people they can’t have feelings that they do.
Hey we all know gay people make you feel uncomfortable when they “act gay” as you’ve said before.
So no. People aren’t allowed to have feelings then.
do you call them a derogatory slang term because they dare to make you feel uncomfortable?
No. I do use whatever language is relevant, and I try to be mature about it. I’ve never used the word “trap” to describe someone, nor am I likely to, but I do know what the word means. I have no power over whether people use it.
You use it:
So traps are guys who dress like girls, but it’s crazy to think that makes them a transvestite? I never heard the “trap” term until four or five years ago.
Do you even know the difference?
Traps are guys who dress convincingly like attractive girls.
Wrong. “Traps” are not guys who dress convincingly like attractive girls. “Transvestites” are (typically) guys who dress like girls. “Traps” are derogatory terms for a subset of transvestites who apparently dress like attractive girls just to humiliate people like you who are uncomfortable around gay people.