If you want people to be inclusive, then you should allow for legitimate questions. We didn’t invent the word. It’s just a word. We made no judgment about it. It’s just a thing that exists.
No judgment?
Frink, if men who are hetero feel fooled or “trapped” by being attracted to biological men who dress like women, then that’s their prerogative. You can’t tell them to not feel that way or not be appalled when they encounter it.
They ought not to be mean, certainly, but they shouldn’t be chastised for feeling disgusted in such an obviously socking circumstance.