I imagine there were people who thought the shark jump wasn’t that bad, maybe even good.
The Leia thing mostly worked for me. For whatever reason, I got what was happening and it held together just enough. I would compare it to surviving a fall from a plane in an inflatable raft, which also worked just enough for me, more than the shark or fridge. And even then I don’t think Leia in space was that extreme. At the end of the day it’s a mostly subjective determination.
What I think is unforgivable is how they think they got Leia back in. Simply put they couldn’t have gotten her in time.
Rey’s radical progress in using the Force is the shark jump for me.