repy to ric, yeah your right but my point is that if i started doing stuff like that on a christian holiday, what would happen to me. my point is not about having th right, its about facing ht consiquenses, the time in which he said, contributed just as much as the words did, to the oppression. if he had said it at anyother time of the year, gays would probably have shrugged it off, but that fact that this guy didnt even have the respect to either put it nicely or say it at a later date is just wrong. if you give respect you get it, and this guy didnt give it, so he didnt get it, its that simple.