I really could come out whenever I want but I don’t want to deal with people being all overly supportive like ‘we’ll support you’ like no shit, Mom, you grew up near the Castro.
Maybe go casual and just start acting as if they already know, like you came out to them months ago and they just forgot.
Yeah, do this. You’re under no obligation to actively inform anyone in your life of your orientation.
From the standpoint that no one is worth respect enough to tell them, no, I disagree.
From the standpoint that you need to be you and not be reliant on living up to some crazy expectation you or others set for yourself, yes, I agree very much so.