“Sometimes you make me feel like I’m just a nuisance.”
“That was not the intent [insert random facts].”Possibly one of the worst responses I’ve ever received? No, “You are not a nuisance”, or a simple “I value your friendship”. I should stop caring.
To be brutally honest, when people come across as seeking reassurance or otherwise sounding like a victim, that can be extraordinarily annoying. If they perceive you as a nuisance, asking them about it can’t yield anything good. And if they don’t, then there’s no reason to ask.
Hope you find people that naturally show you the friendship you desire.