It actually isn’t. Telling people to operate under the delusion that anything good will ever happen to them is dogshit advice. Especially when talking about relationships. All relationships are terrible and destined to be a disaster because they involve people, and people are the worst.
This is painful to read and you should consider getting help, and if it’s even slightly a shtick you should know it’s not amusing anymore.
It’s never been shtick, and there is no help.
All relationships are terrible and destined to be a disaster because they involve people, and people are the worst.
I’ll have you know that I love my daughter beyond reason, and I am her favorite person in the whole world.
That’s nice for you and nice for her.
There is a lot to be said for the positive emotional benefits of deep, meaningful relationships.
Not for me there isn’t.
So you really do need to seek help.
Again with this help myth.