Ash, Possessed, my heart goes out to you. You’re decent guys, and it sucks that you’re having a rough go at it, as Jason might say (the phrase felt right). I can relate to both of you, to a degree. So, at least we’re not alone in being alone.

I’m going to have to agree with mfm above, though. If you spend your time seeking the affection of someone who isn’t able to give it, for one reason or another, you’re just going to get hurt. Depending on the circumstances, remaining friends can be feasible, but before that happens, you have to move on.

Sorry if that came off as a bit of a lecture. It just sucks to see you hurt so much.