he kept saying that men don’t know what the rules are, whatever that means
Yeah I’m not sure what he hoped to accomplish by making men sound like socially inept buffoons. If I’m going to guess then I’d say he’s referring to it not being “the norm” for very long? But again at this point it has been the norm for quite a while, so yeah. No idea.
It’s easier to enforce proper conduct in individual workplaces than it is in the streets of Detroit.
I stand by my statement of doing things that may garner unwanted attention probably isn’t a great idea, but I’ll concede the analogy may have been too extreme.