It comes off as “you can be gay, just don’t bother me with your gayness.” Similar to how chyron is bothered by “flamboyant men.”
I am unapologetic for this. I am allowed to be uncomfortable in certain situations, and I internalize little rebuke for it.
It’s not about being gay, it’s about uncomfortably odd behavior. They are obviously allowed to behave they do, but I am not obligated to feel comfortable around it.
Honestly, my being uncomfortable with certain behaviors doesn’t make me a bigot.
I’m the arbiter of when offense is justified or not.