Hmm… yes, of course! The Last Jedi is full of latent sexuality. It’s really the key to everything! The milking scene, Rey asking Kylo for a cowl, the touching hands scene, Rey believing she can save Kylo, Holdo emasculating Poe, etc etc.
I totally agree with you (after friendzoning Finn in TFA, Rey declines Ren’s seduction by saber-blocking him in TLJ).
(twist in Episode 9: she’s more into wookiees)
Still : I stand my point that Rey asking Ren to put a cowl goes against this latent sexuality. Her eyes looking elsewhere without saying anything in your workprint v1 bears more meaning in that matter than the theatrical cut does imho.