I don’t think it’s crazy that some people want to put their best foot first and not make a bad impression. I don’t know if I’d say that’s being dishonest or lying. Just because you’re not necessarily airing all your bad qualities right away doesn’t mean you’re not being yourself. It’s natural to open up more the more you get to know someone. Again, I wouldn’t call that dishonesty.
If you’re months deep in a relationship and you still don’t feel comfortable being open and yourself, that’s not a relationship you should be in, simple as that.
Dom, seeing as we are past 4 months, I have something I’ve been meaning to tell you…
did you guys date at all or was it an arranged marriage? arranged marriage always comes to mind immediately whenever someone says they’re in a relationship nowadays, because of, you know, how common it is. and how progressive it is. and, of course, how that embodies freedom etc etc etc etc fml