Not what I meant. I meant people should not play weird mind games and lie to each other for the first several months or years of their relationship.
Honestly, you generalize too damn much. You’re starting to sound like a parody of yourself.
Isn’t the whole point of dating to trick someone into thinking you’re more likable than you actually are? I’m just being brutally honest, at least that’s how I see my comments.
No, the point of dating is to find someone who likes you despite your flaws, and vice versa. It’s not about lying to hide your flaws, or at least it shouldn’t be. Better to be upfront and let it end early than drag it out and let it crash and burn much later when your lies are exposed.
This guy dates.
I don’t, actually, though not for lack of trying…
*sobs internally*