i do have one thing, the CG your point isnt really a valid one, it applies to movies that uses lots of CGI, not just the PT lotr no matter how good it looks will be dated, i can already see it in Return of the king. same goes for others as well. so that cant be a valid reason you hate the PT, CGI is the new tool for creating effect, it is easier and cheaper to use, and more diverse then models. the fact that anyone can us it is a good thing, it means that directors will have to put more in stories as effects will no longer carry movies.
your other points are very good, and very well supported, and i can easily empathise with you when you say you hate them. I personally took them for what they were meant to do, entertain me for 2 and a half hours, and maybe make me think a little afterwords, the movies did those two things very well and so i liked them.