Please take this personally but I’m not going to pay you any compliments about how great you are.
ender strikes me as earnest and sincere - also not intended as a compliment. There’s a thread for that stuff 😉
When I think someone is being dogged and I want to hit them with a newspaper, I try to let it drop. And if a person thinks they have won something because I let it drop, that’s pitiable. And don’t think I’m necessarily talking about you guys! Nothing wrong with wanting to make a point and resolve a conflict, but it’s too much stress for me.
Also,
#rotjpigmenforever