Looks like you’re trying to convince yourself. 😉
I’m saying that I enjoy the OT, and can overlook those problems or accept explanations for them. If someone enjoys the OT but is saying TLJ sucks in part because the bombers’ physics don’t per se make sense, they obviously aren’t using the same measuring stick for both trilogies.
If they’re going to complain that bombers in space don’t work that way, they should have to also complain that ramming a Super Stardestroyer into the Death Star wouldn’t create a vertically burning fire.