The issue is unequal treatment of equal male and female characters.
But are they (Rey and Luke, I assume) the same? I hardly think so.
At the risk of continuing a debate that I have to keep pointing out has been debated endlessly on this site for two years now, I never said they’re the same at all. And I have no interest in whatever that video is trying to say.
Okay, then why are we arguing? To use your own argument, those statements are at odds with one another. And I’ll dismiss anything you say to justify it.