Two 19s put together still isn’t very old warb. I’ve known plenty of people in their 40s that still have an active romantic life that haven’t been married for a long time. It’s all mindset bud. It’s more than trying, but not a ton more than mindset. I’m not saying you can win over any girl just with personality and self confidence, but if you keep trying AND you have a good personality you will eventually win. And how you present yourself is a big factor too, much larger than your natural appearance. Women aren’t as superficial on the whole as men in my experience. Obviously there are exceptions and everybody likes eye candy but as far as real interactions go, I’d say an ugly man who is dressed well has a much better chance than a handsome slob.
Damn, I’m an ugly slob.