There’s no “reverse bigotry” going on.
I assume(d) that there are potentially people somewhere (on this site even) who assume if someone doesn’t like Rey it’s likely because they are sexist/misogynist, even if said person made no accusation of her being a Mary Sue.
I just included the term “reverse bigotry” to be inclusive of either potential extreme when I really am just saying I’m tired of the argument altogether no matter which way you come at it. I did not intend to assert that “reverse bigotry” is a problem worth discussing, especially when it comes to Rey.