The Scrip Shadow review states what I thought pretty well
I really wanted her and Kylo to make sweaty space love but alas, no happen.
http://scriptshadow.net/movie-review-the-last-jedi-and-maybe-the-last-star-wars-movie/
Good article, and I consider it a good articulation of what the part of me feels that didn’t like TLJ. (Because I’m divided, myself.)