Also, you neglect to mention the fact that someone else broke a rule, which according to Jay’s rules, is punishable by an permanent and immediate ban with no prior warning.
I thought we already discussed that some people may not necessarily consider it a slur when applied abstractly or not directed at a real person.
informal, offensive very foolish or stupid: in retrospect, it was a totally retarded idea.
My dictionary, at least, agrees with me.