But deep down I think you know that isn’t the answer either. (Not being condescending, swearzies).
I know you’re not. But the real answer is probably “get better friends,” but I don’t have the emotional capacity right now to weed through the 98% that are self-absorbed leeches to find someone from the 2% of decent human beings to befriend.
I’m (probably) not cutting out these friends entirely, but when I come back out of my Hobbit hole in a few weeks I’m not going to be even a fraction as accommodating and available as I have been for the past few years. I’m fucking done being the one putting effort in only for them to suck me dry and then leave me to rot until they need me again.
On my own front, my girlfriends ex is stalking both of us. Has been for six months. Have restraining order. Doesn’t care. Cops won’t do anything. Hacks her Facebook page. Somehow reads her text messages. Other details I won’t put here. It’s scary. It’s gotten so bad in the past week or so I’m almost scared to even post this here or he’ll somehow figure link me to it even though that’s ludicrous. It’s getting to me. I’m at my wits end and so is she. It literally feels like being in a horror movie. He knows everything we do. He reads our fucking text messages. Not Facebook, phone texts.
Holy fucking shit. That’s terrifying. There’s gotta be something you can do about this - have you gathered up evidence of the stalking and phone hacking and stuff to hand over to the authorities?