I apologize if I sounded harsh towards your wife. That wasn’t my intent and I don’t assume/think she’s a bad person at all.
I do have a gripe when people assume they know someone else is up to no good without having anything substantial to base that on, and that’s the impression I got from this.
I didn’t assume “the worst” about your wife, just that she said something I don’t think she had the facts to say. That doesn’t in any way make her a bad person.
And, hell, she was right!