If you were happy to drop it, you wouldn’t keep doubling down, especially by selectively editing your full post.
I am not surprised one bit at this. We were watching the Macy’s parade last week and my wife said she was shocked nothing had come out about him yet.
Based on what? How he looks? The way he talks?
Until someone has a real reason to say something like that it’s a terribly ugly thing to say, even if they end up being right.
You just immediately went to the assumption that she must have some super-shitty reason.
If you aren’t gonna apologize and you really are happy to just drop it, maybe actually fucking drop it.