When Obi Wan met Anakin during the clone wars, he was already married. Anakin didn't know that his wife had become pregnant by him before he went off and became Darth Vader. When Obi Wan returned to his Mrs. Skywalker to tell her the horrible news, he discovered she'd already had twins. He knew that these would both be a threat to the Emperor, the emperor knew as well and would inevitably seek them out, so he had them hidden on remote planets. Mrs Skywalker and the daughter went to Alderan to be protected by his friend the King of Alderan Bail Organa, while Obi Wan sought out his brother Owen to take care of Luke, while he went into the life of a hermit.
Not allowing marriage...pah....seeds for corny hollywood style teen angst I call it.
The only forbidden emotions are Anger, Fear, Hate, Aggression, the dark side are they.
Happiness, hope, love, passiveness, the light side are they.
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