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Am I a Bully? — Page 19

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I think we’re getting a little bit carried away by the allegations.

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Possessed said:

chyron8472 said:

Possessed, however, is a bully. That much is clear.

Possessed? No I’m the thick dumbass retarded monkey who needs his throat ripped out remember?

From 12 Angry Men:

Juror #8: [taking a cough drop that Juror #2 offered him] There’s something else I’d like to talk about for a minute. Thanks. I think we’ve proved that the old man couldn’t have heard the boy say “I’m gonna kill you”, but supposing he did…
Juror #10: [interrupting] You didn’t prove it at all. What’re you talking about?
Juror #8: But supposing he really did hear it. This phrase, how many times have all of us used it? Probably thousands. “I could kill you for that, darling.” “Junior, you do that once more and I’m gonna kill you.” “Get in there, Rocky, and kill him!”… See, we say it every day. That doesn’t mean we’re gonna kill anyone.
Juror #3: Wait a minute, what are you trying to give us here? The phrase was “I’m gonna kill you”; the kid yelled it at the top of his lungs… Don’t tell me he didn’t mean it! Anybody says a thing like that the way he said it, they mean it!
Juror #2: Well, gee now, I don’t know.
[Everyone looks at #2]
Juror #2: I remember I was arguing with the guy I work next to at the bank a couple of weeks ago. He called me an idiot, so I yelled at him.
Juror #3: [pointing at #8] Now listen, this guy’s tryin’ to make you believe things that aren’t so! The kid said he was gonna kill him, and he did kill him!
Juror #8: Let me ask you this: do you really think the kid would shout out a thing like that so the whole neighborhood could hear him? I don’t think so; he’s much to bright for that.

Then later on in the movie:

Juror #3: I’ll kill him! I’ll - kill him!
Juror #8: [calmly] You don’t really mean you’ll kill me, do you?

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Excuse me but this is my bullying thread. If you think someone else besides me is a bully, go have them make a separate thread about themselves.

I’ve reported the lot of you.

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chyron8472 said:

Yes.

Thanks for the clarification.

And that fact that you can’t let what I said go, and since you’re basically stalking me with any chance to bring it up means that assessment has not changed.

Excellent.

It also suggests a plethora of terrible family life issues on your part, since I wager I’m not the only one you have done this to.

You’d loSe. And nice, but incorrect diagnosis. Would you like to know what since of the things YOU’VE been doing and saying suggest? Nah, because you’re right about one thing and that’s that it’s been hammered into the ground enough.

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Warbler said:

moviefreakedmind said:

I think that an essential characteristic of bullies is sadism, sexual or otherwise, even if just to a small degree. Anything else is just callousness or assholeness.

sadism? Not sure, but I know my bullies were not driven by anything sexual.

That’s why I said “sexual or otherwise.” Sadism isn’t inherently sexual, it’s just usually assumed. A sadist can cause harm to people for joy, which is what bullies do, right?

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chyron8472 said:

Yes.

And that fact that you can’t let what I said go, and since you’re basically stalking me with any chance to bring it up means that assessment has not changed.

It also suggests a plethora of terrible family life issues on your part, since I wager I’m not the only one you have done this to.

That’s a really weird assessment.

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chyron8472 said:

It also suggests a plethora of terrible family life issues on your part, since I wager I’m not the only one you have done this to.

That maybe going a bit too far.

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Warbler said:

chyron8472 said:

It also suggests a plethora of terrible family life issues on your part, since I wager I’m not the only one you have done this to.

That maybe going a bit too far.

Maybe?

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I mean if we’re making assessments then we might as well point out that being this into a show arguably as child targeted as Dora the Explorer and Blues Clues as a grown man would suggest pedophilia. And that’s not an accusation, may pointing out what this would suggest to me. At the very least it’s a warning sign and if you don’t think so we’ll just have to agree to disagree. I know I’m not a bully in general but will admit that by this stage I don’t give a shit about chyrons feelings.

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It may be useful to know if the behavior done by both parties constitutes a violation of forum rules. I shall examine the situation based on rules 1, 2, 6, and 7.

  1. There may be a rule violation of rule 1 in the b*tching thread, as people were complaining about another forum member. However, since the OP participated in those activities, it is less clear if the conversation is on-topic.

  2. This is perhaps the rule violation with the most evidence on both sides. It is easy to to find some statements that may be considered as personal attacks on chyron, such as the post that Possessed made declaring that it was “fucking creepy” that chyron watched MLP. But there may well be foul play on both sides of the coin, as chyron made a very incendiary comment to Possessed calling him a “fucking retarded monkey.”

  3. chyron repeatedly protested posts made about him by several forum members. This can be considered harassment.

  4. This is mostly a repetition of rule 2. While chyron wasn’t being attacked based on race, religion, gender, etc…, he could still make a case that he was being personally attacked. Similarly, Possessed can say that this happened to him too.

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moviefreakedmind said:

Warbler said:

chyron8472 said:

It also suggests a plethora of terrible family life issues on your part, since I wager I’m not the only one you have done this to.

That maybe going a bit too far.

Maybe?

Not going to answer. Please see my post in the bitching thread.

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yhwx said:

It may be useful to know if the behavior done by both parties constitutes a violation of forum rules. I shall examine the situation based on rules 1, 2, 6, and 7.

  1. There may be a rule violation of rule 1 in the b*tching thread, as people were complaining about another forum member. However, since the OP participated in those activities, it is less clear if the conversation is on-topic.

  2. This is perhaps the rule violation with the most evidence on both sides. It is easy to to find some statements that may be considered as personal attacks on chyron, such as the post that Possessed made declaring that it was “fucking creepy” that chyron watched MLP. But there may well be foul play on both sides of the coin, as chyron made a very incendiary comment to Possessed calling him a “fucking retarded monkey.”

  3. chyron repeatedly protested posts made about him by several forum members. This can be considered harassment.

  4. This is mostly a repetition of rule 2. While chyron wasn’t being attacked based on race, religion, gender, etc…, he could still make a case that he was being personally attacked. Similarly, Possessed can say that this happened to him too.

Thanks Matlock.

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Possessed said:

I mean if we’re making assessments then we might as well point out that being this into a show arguably as child targeted as Dora the Explorer and Blues Clues as a grown man would suggest pedophilia.

Or horseophilia? I mean, I don’t know the proper term, but I’m afraid to google “horse sex” for obvious reasons.

And before anyone gets all pissed off, I am not accusing chyron of being into horses or anything disgusting like that. But Bronies have been known to be into it at a much higher rate than the general population.

And there’s also this.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/My_Little_Pony:_Equestria_Girls

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Warbler said:

chyron8472 said:

It also suggests a plethora of terrible family life issues on your part, since I wager I’m not the only one you have done this to.

That maybe going a bit too far.

Perhaps, but isn’t it generally the case for people who bully, just in a general sense? They have personal inadequacies which which they can’t cope, and so they take it out on other people by making themselves feel superior?

TV’s Frink said:

chyron just put a big Ric pic in your sig and be done with it.

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There’s a difference between being a bully and legitimately taking issue with somebody over a particular thing. You’d be hard pressed to find somebody sweeter than me in person.

Not if you expressed an interest in something that screamed “pedophile” though perhaps.

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TV’s Frink said:

Possessed said:

I mean if we’re making assessments then we might as well point out that being this into a show arguably as child targeted as Dora the Explorer and Blues Clues as a grown man would suggest pedophilia.

Or horseophilia? I mean, I don’t know the proper term, but I’m afraid to google “horse sex” for obvious reasons.

I think it’s equiphillia, and I think Johnny Weir is into it.

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You have no evidence that I’m a pedophile. Yuck.

I just like a show.

And I guess that answers that about whether you said all you needed to say.

TV’s Frink said:

chyron just put a big Ric pic in your sig and be done with it.

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yhwx said:

I think Johnny Weir is into it.

No, you’re thinking of swans.

For the record, so I won’t be accused of bullying Johnny Weir, I enjoy Johnny Weir.

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chyron8472 said:

You have no evidence that I’m a pedophile. Yuck.
I just like a show.

Absolutely true. And i don’t think you are, per se, or that you’ve ever hurt anybody either. It’s just a troubling sign that I honestly think you should go talk to a psychiatrist about. And I’m legitimately not making fun at this point.

And I guess that answers that about whether you said all you needed to say.

Eh I was just replying to something that was said before I said that.

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I HAVE A 2 YEAR OLD DAUGHTER. I didn’t start watching it just because. But now that I’ve been watching it, I like it. My daughter likes watching the same few shows, and I happen to find this one not annoying.

TV’s Frink said:

chyron just put a big Ric pic in your sig and be done with it.

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TV’s Frink said:

yhwx said:

I think Johnny Weir is into it.

No, you’re thinking of swans.

For the record, so I won’t be accused of bullying Johnny Weir, I enjoy Johnny Weir.

Swans? THAT’S EVEN WORSE!!!

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darthrush said:

All I’ll say is that it is pretty fucking weird to like My Little Pony at such an age.

But it’s also pretty weird to take the logical step from there that he might be a pedophile.

I don’t think he is in the sense that he’s ever or even ever would hurt anybody, but it’s undeniably a troubling sign.