Couple things.

The negative comments about effeminate men were actually made by Chyron himself. We merely repeated it.
It’s genuine concern. It’s creepy. And yes we were quite confrontational about wanting to know why a grown man wants to watch a show aimed at 4 year old girls. To quote another member, I firmly believe in supporting people for what they are. That doesn’t mean I have to blindly accept crazy and inappropriate things they do.
Chyron called people names like “thick dumbass retarded monkey”. I can’t speak for others but I never called him any names even though I was directly called a dumbass thick retarded monkey for daring to be alarmed at something so unusual. Whose the bully?
None of us said we fantasized about ripping his throat out. That was all him.

You have a blessed day.