I worry about this a lot in this thread lately, if only on a relatively minor scale.
I’m not crazy. I’m very considerate of other people.
That is not craziness. Antisocial people are anything but crazy. They lack empathy, and may even be considerate as they display this lack of empathy. I’m not trying to say you are antisocial, but some of what you describe makes me wonder if you feel you have such traits. It could be worth getting some therapy if you feel you fit the mold.
I’m empathetic in the sense that when I see or hear about other people being mistreated I get really angry. I don’t really trust therapists though, and I don’t know if I’d be able to hide going to one from my family since I’m still young enough to be on my parents’ medical insurance.