I think I get what you’re saying. Maybe I’m just bitter because I was cursed with an incredibly effeminate walk that I could never figure out how to get rid of.
Kids are cruel. I am not effeminate myself, but I am rather a nerd. And I got picked on quite a bit in school for it, so I feel you.
However, maybe bend more with the knees and sway less with the hips? I dunno, I don’t see why it matters. But again, kids can be horribly cruel.