Basically what I’m saying is, you don’t know if the people you’re talking to are going to be in the 1% of people that aren’t terrible until you’ve wasted a lot of time on them. Even then, people change on a dime later on so you can still be tricked.
Yeah, can’t really disagree with you there. I feel like I tend to be a good judge of character most of the time, so I can tell pretty early on if someone’s a piece of shit, but I’m not always right. Investing a lot of time into someone only for them to turn out to not be worth it is rough.