But the point is, they start doing that before they even know they are transgendered. They don’t go “oh! I transgendered! Now let me see how everyone thinks girls should act and I will act like that”, I think it is more like they start out preferring girls and then realize later on that they are transgendered.
Sure. As far as they know (with the examples I know), they’re a girl and they have a penis. They’re not trans, they’re a girl. And sure, they’ve heard adults say that boys have penises and girls don’t, but they can look down their own pants for proof the adult is wrong, QED. It’s not until they learn a little more about society works that they identify as trans. Until then they’re just a girl like any other girl. Also, some of the girls with penises like boy things. They’re tomboys. Trans tomboys. It really has nothing to do with what activities you like, although there’s a large overlap.
I’m confused by this paragraph.
Most people are, thus the societal uproar. Basically boys who like girls things and girls who like boy things are not trans. If you think that’s what trans is, that’s the first problem. Trans is not a newfangled word for tomboy. It’s when you look like one sex (in terms of chromosomes, secondary physical attributes, etc), but feel at a deep level that you aren’t that sex. I’m not exactly how that feeling manifests internally, because I’m not trans. But basically to outsiders it’s when a little boy says he’s a girl and he’s not just having pretend-time. He consistently and always says he’s a girl. Not that he likes girl stuff, not that he wants to be a girl, but that he is a girl. That’s trans.
If you thought I was saying transgendered people are simply “boys who like girls things and girls who like boy things”, you are wrong. I believe that transgendered people are born with the body of one gender and the mind of the other gender.