I don’t believe they’re debating it warbler. I believe husezni is speaking in layman’s terms to explain what had been posted and coffee encouraged the sharing of opinions even if they weren’t the same as others.
This is just how I am seeing it though. I could very well be wrong.
I encouraged him to give advice actually pertaining to my situation if he could, (even if it was just how many volts of electricity I should subject myself to). Instead, it seems he decided to defend himself and/or offer completely irrelevant advice about questioning everything. ¯\ _(ツ)_/¯
It is the unfortunate side effect of one too many unkind jabs. I mean he did stray but when someone always gets dissed by folks defense mode tends to become the only mode. Maybe he looks for it, maybe he doesn’t. Maybe he too has some things going wrong in his life that affect him and it shows in his posts. I don’t know, I’m not a licensed physician of any kind, so I can only guess. He will most certainly be judged here which isn’t helpful but will happen whether he wants it or not.
I hope things start going better for him.