I just realized something big imo:

The build up to Rey and Kylo’s next confrontation feels really different this time around. I always looked forward to the fight more when it came to the Luke and Vader dilemma but with Rey and Kylo Ren I don’t really care about them fighting. Sure, I want to see Kylo kick her ass but then again I’m far more intrigued as to what their next conversation is going to be like. ROTJ and the end of ESB make me care about the dynamic between Luke and Vader but it never overshadows me wanting to see them duel each other but with these new films it’s different man.