Warbler’s instigation is never intentional. That much is obvious. You are an instigator as well, but I don’t think you do it deliberately either. Maybe this common problem could give you a little more patience for others like Warbler.
I have not engaged warbler at all recently and he has been well behaved himself though not always so innocent. My behavior has been calm and fairly conversational. But, as soon as I try to make a valid point, we’re back to “oh you just wanna be the victim”. It gets old and fucking sickening. I wasn’t nasty when I made the comparison and I didn’t put any names in the post. Am I denied from making what I feel are valid points because some members don’t like me? It never fails that at least every few days, at least one person brings it up, or says something else to fuel the fire.
It’s like some don’t like me when I behave because then they can’t talk shit about it.
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