We can “what if” and “possibly” til the cows come home and go back out. “It is” and “it isn’t” are what we have and it all comes down to personal choice. My niece has Asperger’s and she’s going through treatment. It has not changed who she is and always was. She still see’s the world the same way and through the same thoughts. I wouldn’t say “fuck you” to her mother, my sister, for wanting to help her daughter as best she can with all the options available. Why? Because it was never about me, it was about my niece, and if she’s happy I’m happy. I would be the same way if it was my own daughter.