It was no personal attack. I was pointing out that you cannot refute two solid arguments with just one person’s experience.
You must lead a sad, lonely life. This is no personal attack, it’s all I can come up with to explain why you have to cover up your massive insecurity problem by acting the way you do here. You have my sympathy, and I hope some day you can find your way to a better life with people in it that love you the way you deserve to be loved (as we all deserve to be loved).