On the matter of abortions and birth control, in my mind it will never not be a matter of women’s rights. It’s very simple. You can say people shouldn’t fuck around in the first place or they deserve the consequences, but at the end of the day it is only the woman that has to deal with those consequences. The men get off scot free, if they want. So why shouldn’t the women too?
(not to mention an abortion is not actually “scot free” and is quite an ordeal in many ways)
As to whether it is immoral or not, this is a case where there’s no where to go but to say agree to disagree.