Warbler said:
Jetrell Fo said:
Possessed said:
Jetrell Fo said:
darth_ender said:
Jetrell Fo said:
darth_ender said:
If it bothers you, practice not taking things so personally, or don’t be around those who bother you.
It is the lack of control over the issue that makes me mad. There are avenues but past experience says it will do me no good.
Don’t try to control the issue. Control yourself. If you can’t control your emotional reaction, control your exposure to the offense. Darth Id used to really bother me. But this is the cold Internet, people act rude, and I decided I don’t care if he insults me anymore. Usually, I ignore him, but when he does try to insult me, I just don’t let it get to me. Ignore what you don’t like, or get away from the situation. You are clearly a nice guy, but you let too much bother you, and try too hard to control the direction of the forum. Accept what you can’t control, and control what you can, and you will be a lot happier here.
Thick skin, thick skin, thick skin, no-one cares, I’m never right, move along, got it.
This persecution complex is why you don’t enjoy yourself here and is why people get annoyed. Honestly I thought you were doing great until you happened to notice an almost two week old comment.
I’m doing okay. There is no persecution complex and my doctor is the only one I go to for diagnosis of anything. Warbler got me bent out of shape yesterday because he was in a bad mood and due to my emotion, I was aparently the best candidate for him to lash out at. It’s done, it’s over with. I appreciate your concern.
I sorry I crossed a line a bit, but to get this bent out of shape over what I said to you, is way, way, wayyyyyy, overracting. Calm down.
I am really sorry about your friends misfortune warbler.
I do however need to distance myself from you because like some others, you just don’t know when to stop, and act like it’s all okay even though you’ve just asked for prayers in another thread. It isn’t okay. I end up creating my own issues trying to defend myself because I am the only one speaking for me. Most don’t bother, others start complaining about me along with you afterwards, and the rest … well, I’ve been told that what I think doesn’t really matter.
You can’t be all religious/righteous on one side and then mean/ignorant on the other. If you believe you’re a decent person then be a decent person but if you believe you’re not, then don’t act like a decent person, be who you really are.
To those that have been understanding, thank you. And thank you for letting me get this burden off my chest.