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Tyrphanax said:

Warbler said:

Warbler said:

Warbler said:

To everyone that prays:

There are family members of those that belong to our church. They have a baby with a very serious lung condition. I think the child was born premature. I don’t know all of the details, but I know that they doctors have said there is nothing more they can do. I fear the baby might not have very long to live. It is in God’s hands now. I can’t imaging what this family is going through. I ask all here that pray, to pray for the baby, and her family and friend and all those treating her.

There has been too little improvement in her condition. They are going to take her off the the machines that are keeping the baby alive. Please continue to pray.

@7:25 PM, the baby passed away. Please pray for family. Thankyou.

Can’t even imagine.

I almost can. It’s truly, truly awful. No one should have to go through it.

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Tyrphanax said:

Warbler said:

Warbler said:

Warbler said:

To everyone that prays:

There are family members of those that belong to our church. They have a baby with a very serious lung condition. I think the child was born premature. I don’t know all of the details, but I know that they doctors have said there is nothing more they can do. I fear the baby might not have very long to live. It is in God’s hands now. I can’t imaging what this family is going through. I ask all here that pray, to pray for the baby, and her family and friend and all those treating her.

There has been too little improvement in her condition. They are going to take her off the the machines that are keeping the baby alive. Please continue to pray.

@7:25 PM, the baby passed away. Please pray for family. Thankyou.

Can’t even imagine.

I can’t either.

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Warbler said:

Warbler said:

Warbler said:

To everyone that prays:

There are family members of those that belong to our church. They have a baby with a very serious lung condition. I think the child was born premature. I don’t know all of the details, but I know that they doctors have said there is nothing more they can do. I fear the baby might not have very long to live. It is in God’s hands now. I can’t imaging what this family is going through. I ask all here that pray, to pray for the baby, and her family and friend and all those treating her.

There has been too little improvement in her condition. They are going to take her off the the machines that are keeping the baby alive. Please continue to pray.

@7:25 PM, the baby passed away. Please pray for family. Thankyou.

Thanks for keeping us up to date. Very sorry to hear about the loss. I will keep the family in my thoughts and prayers. Always remember the resurrection.

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Jetrell Fo said:

darth_ender said:

If it bothers you, practice not taking things so personally, or don’t be around those who bother you.

It is the lack of control over the issue that makes me mad. There are avenues but past experience says it will do me no good.

Don’t try to control the issue. Control yourself. If you can’t control your emotional reaction, control your exposure to the offense. Darth Id used to really bother me. But this is the cold Internet, people act rude, and I decided I don’t care if he insults me anymore. Usually, I ignore him, but when he does try to insult me, I just don’t let it get to me. Ignore what you don’t like, or get away from the situation. You are clearly a nice guy, but you let too much bother you, and try too hard to control the direction of the forum. Accept what you can’t control, and control what you can, and you will be a lot happier here.

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darth_ender said:

Jetrell Fo said:

darth_ender said:

If it bothers you, practice not taking things so personally, or don’t be around those who bother you.

It is the lack of control over the issue that makes me mad. There are avenues but past experience says it will do me no good.

Don’t try to control the issue. Control yourself. If you can’t control your emotional reaction, control your exposure to the offense. Darth Id used to really bother me. But this is the cold Internet, people act rude, and I decided I don’t care if he insults me anymore. Usually, I ignore him, but when he does try to insult me, I just don’t let it get to me. Ignore what you don’t like, or get away from the situation. You are clearly a nice guy, but you let too much bother you, and try too hard to control the direction of the forum. Accept what you can’t control, and control what you can, and you will be a lot happier here.

I know the forum is what it is. How it is allowed to flow regardless of how it might affect others was made personally clear to me recently. Thick skin, thick skin, thick skin, no-one cares, I’m never right, move along, got it.

Thanks ender, I honestly appreciate your dialog, it helps some.

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Jetrell Fo said:

darth_ender said:

Jetrell Fo said:

darth_ender said:

If it bothers you, practice not taking things so personally, or don’t be around those who bother you.

It is the lack of control over the issue that makes me mad. There are avenues but past experience says it will do me no good.

Don’t try to control the issue. Control yourself. If you can’t control your emotional reaction, control your exposure to the offense. Darth Id used to really bother me. But this is the cold Internet, people act rude, and I decided I don’t care if he insults me anymore. Usually, I ignore him, but when he does try to insult me, I just don’t let it get to me. Ignore what you don’t like, or get away from the situation. You are clearly a nice guy, but you let too much bother you, and try too hard to control the direction of the forum. Accept what you can’t control, and control what you can, and you will be a lot happier here.

Thick skin, thick skin, thick skin, no-one cares, I’m never right, move along, got it.

This persecution complex is why you don’t enjoy yourself here and is why people get annoyed. Honestly I thought you were doing great until you happened to notice an almost two week old comment.

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Possessed said:

Jetrell Fo said:

darth_ender said:

Jetrell Fo said:

darth_ender said:

If it bothers you, practice not taking things so personally, or don’t be around those who bother you.

It is the lack of control over the issue that makes me mad. There are avenues but past experience says it will do me no good.

Don’t try to control the issue. Control yourself. If you can’t control your emotional reaction, control your exposure to the offense. Darth Id used to really bother me. But this is the cold Internet, people act rude, and I decided I don’t care if he insults me anymore. Usually, I ignore him, but when he does try to insult me, I just don’t let it get to me. Ignore what you don’t like, or get away from the situation. You are clearly a nice guy, but you let too much bother you, and try too hard to control the direction of the forum. Accept what you can’t control, and control what you can, and you will be a lot happier here.

Thick skin, thick skin, thick skin, no-one cares, I’m never right, move along, got it.

This persecution complex is why you don’t enjoy yourself here and is why people get annoyed. Honestly I thought you were doing great until you happened to notice an almost two week old comment.

I’m doing okay. There is no persecution complex and my doctor is the only one I go to for diagnosis of anything. Warbler got me bent out of shape yesterday because he was in a bad mood and due to my emotion, I was aparently the best candidate for him to lash out at. It’s done, it’s over with. I appreciate your concern.

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Jetrell Fo said:

Possessed said:

Jetrell Fo said:

darth_ender said:

Jetrell Fo said:

darth_ender said:

If it bothers you, practice not taking things so personally, or don’t be around those who bother you.

It is the lack of control over the issue that makes me mad. There are avenues but past experience says it will do me no good.

Don’t try to control the issue. Control yourself. If you can’t control your emotional reaction, control your exposure to the offense. Darth Id used to really bother me. But this is the cold Internet, people act rude, and I decided I don’t care if he insults me anymore. Usually, I ignore him, but when he does try to insult me, I just don’t let it get to me. Ignore what you don’t like, or get away from the situation. You are clearly a nice guy, but you let too much bother you, and try too hard to control the direction of the forum. Accept what you can’t control, and control what you can, and you will be a lot happier here.

Thick skin, thick skin, thick skin, no-one cares, I’m never right, move along, got it.

This persecution complex is why you don’t enjoy yourself here and is why people get annoyed. Honestly I thought you were doing great until you happened to notice an almost two week old comment.

I’m doing okay. There is no persecution complex and my doctor is the only one I go to for diagnosis of anything. Warbler got me bent out of shape yesterday because he was in a bad mood and due to my emotion, I was aparently the best candidate for him to lash out at. It’s done, it’s over with. I appreciate your concern.

I sorry I crossed a line a bit, but to get this bent out of shape over what I said to you, is way, way, wayyyyyy, overracting. Calm down.

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I’ve been praying, make sure to keep me updated.

EDIT: Missed a bunch of posts somehow…

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There is not much more to update on. The Baby passed away. All there is for them to do now is to mourn and pray and have the funeral and at some point try to get on with life.

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Warbler said:

Jetrell Fo said:

Possessed said:

Jetrell Fo said:

darth_ender said:

Jetrell Fo said:

darth_ender said:

If it bothers you, practice not taking things so personally, or don’t be around those who bother you.

It is the lack of control over the issue that makes me mad. There are avenues but past experience says it will do me no good.

Don’t try to control the issue. Control yourself. If you can’t control your emotional reaction, control your exposure to the offense. Darth Id used to really bother me. But this is the cold Internet, people act rude, and I decided I don’t care if he insults me anymore. Usually, I ignore him, but when he does try to insult me, I just don’t let it get to me. Ignore what you don’t like, or get away from the situation. You are clearly a nice guy, but you let too much bother you, and try too hard to control the direction of the forum. Accept what you can’t control, and control what you can, and you will be a lot happier here.

Thick skin, thick skin, thick skin, no-one cares, I’m never right, move along, got it.

This persecution complex is why you don’t enjoy yourself here and is why people get annoyed. Honestly I thought you were doing great until you happened to notice an almost two week old comment.

I’m doing okay. There is no persecution complex and my doctor is the only one I go to for diagnosis of anything. Warbler got me bent out of shape yesterday because he was in a bad mood and due to my emotion, I was aparently the best candidate for him to lash out at. It’s done, it’s over with. I appreciate your concern.

I sorry I crossed a line a bit, but to get this bent out of shape over what I said to you, is way, way, wayyyyyy, overracting. Calm down.

I am really sorry about your friends misfortune warbler.

I do however need to distance myself from you because like some others, you just don’t know when to stop, and act like it’s all okay even though you’ve just asked for prayers in another thread. It isn’t okay. I end up creating my own issues trying to defend myself because I am the only one speaking for me. Most don’t bother, others start complaining about me along with you afterwards, and the rest … well, I’ve been told that what I think doesn’t really matter.

You can’t be all religious/righteous on one side and then mean/ignorant on the other. If you believe you’re a decent person then be a decent person but if you believe you’re not, then don’t act like a decent person, be who you really are.

To those that have been understanding, thank you. And thank you for letting me get this burden off my chest.

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darth_ender said:

This thread is meant only for either sharing your deepest troubles (in other words, not the petty stuff like the b*tching thread), and for those who wish to offer support.  No teasing, no mocking, no bickering, no side conversations about someone.

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TV’s Frink said:

darth_ender said:

This thread is meant only for either sharing your deepest troubles (in other words, not the petty stuff like the b*tching thread), and for those who wish to offer support.  No teasing, no mocking, no bickering, no side conversations about someone.

I am responding to warbler as the rules allow. Also darth_ender is the one who moderates his thread. Thank you for your concern though, it is duly noted.

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Warbler said:

There is not much more to update on. The Baby passed away. All there is for them to do now is to mourn and pray and have the funeral and at some point try to get on with life.

Sorry, I forgot to refresh the page before replying, so I missed your update. I’m so sorry to here that, and will keep the family in my prayers.

Something similar happened to a couple we knew in my hometown. I can’t imagine what it must be like to go through that.

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Jetrell Fo said:

Warbler said:

Jetrell Fo said:

Possessed said:

Jetrell Fo said:

darth_ender said:

Jetrell Fo said:

darth_ender said:

If it bothers you, practice not taking things so personally, or don’t be around those who bother you.

It is the lack of control over the issue that makes me mad. There are avenues but past experience says it will do me no good.

Don’t try to control the issue. Control yourself. If you can’t control your emotional reaction, control your exposure to the offense. Darth Id used to really bother me. But this is the cold Internet, people act rude, and I decided I don’t care if he insults me anymore. Usually, I ignore him, but when he does try to insult me, I just don’t let it get to me. Ignore what you don’t like, or get away from the situation. You are clearly a nice guy, but you let too much bother you, and try too hard to control the direction of the forum. Accept what you can’t control, and control what you can, and you will be a lot happier here.

Thick skin, thick skin, thick skin, no-one cares, I’m never right, move along, got it.

This persecution complex is why you don’t enjoy yourself here and is why people get annoyed. Honestly I thought you were doing great until you happened to notice an almost two week old comment.

I’m doing okay. There is no persecution complex and my doctor is the only one I go to for diagnosis of anything. Warbler got me bent out of shape yesterday because he was in a bad mood and due to my emotion, I was aparently the best candidate for him to lash out at. It’s done, it’s over with. I appreciate your concern.

I sorry I crossed a line a bit, but to get this bent out of shape over what I said to you, is way, way, wayyyyyy, overracting. Calm down.

I am really sorry about your friends misfortune warbler.

I do however need to distance myself from you because like some others, you just don’t know when to stop, and act like it’s all okay even though you’ve just asked for prayers in another thread. It isn’t okay. I end up creating my own issues trying to defend myself because I am the only one speaking for me. Most don’t bother, others start complaining about me along with you afterwards, and the rest … well, I’ve been told that what I think doesn’t really matter.

You can’t be all religious/righteous on one side and then mean/ignorant on the other. If you believe you’re a decent person then be a decent person but if you believe you’re not, then don’t act like a decent person, be who you really are.

To those that have been understanding, thank you. And thank you for letting me get this burden off my chest.

In the interest of keeping this thread for what it was intended for and to keep it peaceful in this thread, I have respond to the quoted post here: http://originaltrilogy.com/topic/The-thread-for-conversations-started-in-other-threads-that-dont-there/id/53540

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^Just in case you decide not to read my pm, your new thread has been locked. It happened after I reported a post for making fun of your thread, in the Parroty Thread, while said person was posting in your new thread.

The post I reported for making fun of your thread, remains untouched.

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Jetrell Fo said:

^Just in case you decide not to read my pm, your new thread has been locked. It happened after I reported a post for making fun of your thread, in the Parroty Thread, while said person was posting in your new thread.

The post I reported for making fun of your thread, remains untouched.

Posts in the “Parroty Thread” aren’t “making fun” of anything.

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darth_ender said:

This thread is meant only for either sharing your deepest troubles (in other words, not the petty stuff like the b*tching thread), and for those who wish to offer support.  No teasing, no mocking, no bickering, no side conversations about someone.

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Jetrell Fo said:

^Just in case you decide not to read my pm, your new thread has been locked. It happened after I reported a post for making fun of your thread, in the Parroty Thread, while said person was posting in your new thread.

The post I reported for making fun of your thread, remains untouched.

I read the PM.