I think if you read FF’s last few posts you’ll see he didn’t mean to offend and realized after the fact that his original post came off worse than intended.
Sorry, I didn’t get past being told to fuck off, and I am not going to. The loss of a loved one is very sensitive area and he shows no understanding that whatsoever. You don’t go in that area and make a joke like that and then tell the person to fuck off when they complain. I thought it was possible I was misunderstanding his post so I asked him and he said it was intended as “levity”. In other words, a joke. A very offensive joke. Then he tells me to fuck off after I dared complain about it. That is inexcusable.