If you can’t see the difference between constantly complaining about a place you’re voluntarily staying at and complaining that someone else won’t stop complaining about a place I’m trying to enjoy then I don’t know what to tell you.
There is also a difference in being part of the problem and being part of the solution if I’m not mistaken. You gladly take the support of your fellow members when you have a problem in life and I have been one of your supporters because I am sincere about things getting better for you. Why is it so hard then for some of that support being returned to the place you are trying to enjoy to help make it better? If you can’t see that difference then I don’t know what to tell me either.
I post this to you respectfully, not with any intention of malice.