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Post #102219

Author
Shimraa
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Girl Problem
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Date created
24-Apr-2005, 4:40 PM
i dont know if they are right or not, i would say that 2 months would be more then enough time to get into a good relationship with someone. infact from my experience if you start off to slow you'll ruin your chances to get into a relationship. its funny her at university me and my buddies have come with model. with girls there are 2 ladders, the relationship ladder and the friends ladder. and the further up you get on one of then the further you have to jump to get onto the other. if you start a relationship really slowly you will by default go up the friends ladder.

but i can understand from experence it is very hard to follow my advice when it comes down to it. so your goal would be to get into a position where you guys can stay in touch outside of school. another thing is all of those signs you mentioned are very interesting like they said b4 they could mean she wants to be friends or something else, in either case she likes you which is good.

as for the quite person thing i know its tough, trust me i was really really quite in highschool, but you have to break out of it. i guess it had to take the incident i mentioned above to make me do it but still i did. and i went to a highschool of 400 too, my class had 60 students in it.

oh another thing my advice b4 about showering her with attention that might be a bad idea, i cant call it cus i dont know you or her. these are the two possible situations and you can decide what to do. she will either like you for it because unlike other guys you are interested in her interests and who she is. the other possiblity is that she will get annoyed cus every body is always bothering her about that kind of stuff and she doesnt like to tell everyone who she is. if that is the case what i would suggest is to find a common ground and use that a a starting point and spread from there. or try my trick where you find something unique about you and talk to her about it.