Fo. seriously. you asked for feedback. you got REAL feedback. i guess you don’t like it, so it isn’t good advice? Come on man. you need to take a step back, and be OK with people completely disagreeing with you.
Look, I’m okay with reasonable feedback. I’m okay with people disagreeing with me. What I don’t agree with is that a number of you feel it’s okay to tell me to bug out, that I’m the issue, while we have other members who keep antagonizing the situation. Where is your advice to them? Keep fucking with Fo? Fuck with him so bad that he leaves off topic or delete his account? I have every right to be here as you or any other member.
I have taken to signing out completely when I leave here. That helps some. When I come back it’s always the same. A half dozen other members have HAD to have their say and it never fucking ends. Do you honestly believe that antagonizing someone you want to leave is helpful? I can’t imagine you do.
My advice is this: there isn’t one solution that will make you happy, and make everyone else happy. Thats what i mean when i say be OK with us all completely disagreeing. You can’t impose your will on everyone on this forum anymore than they can impose it on you. It really seems like the only answer you want to all your complaints, is for everyone to start liking your posts more?
If you want to get along with people better online, i think your only choices are being more selective in sites you visit (knowing they already like you), or agree to disagree with people on the sites you choose to be on (ot.com), and don’t drag out every argument. you have to loose arguments sometimes man. LET IT GO.
Thats my reasonable advice.
I’m good with disagreement. I just apologized to Frink for being wrong about something. I am not looking to impose a will. What I am looking for is that the standard be set for everyone, not just myself. Jay has already made it clear that Frink has been given a wider latitude than most. Frink has said he can’t just walk away. He will continue to antagonize as long as I post. Do you at least recognize the basic inherent problem in that? I am also not the only one who drags out arguments and there is more than enough proof of that in other threads.
I can lose arguments. I can accept defeat. I can accept your reasonable advice. Can you accept not telling others who are guilty of the same thing what you just told me? That may be more difficult than one might care to admit considering and I understand why it would be. Band-aids only work for as long as they stick.